Monday, May 30, 2011

 

Nothing is perfect. Neither are we.
But we are still crazy about each other.
Love keeps us going.

[♥ clarice] danced at 12:42 AM

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

 

你真的认为我是一个这样的人？

就算全世界误会我也无所谓，至少我以为你会相信我

[♥ clarice] danced at 5:25 PM

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Probably he doesn't even know where this is going, or what I'm pissed about. Think before you speak and act. Don't try to talk big on things you can't achieve. Because noone's gna believe you anymore in future.

[♥ clarice] danced at 11:34 PM

Thursday, May 19, 2011

 

 

[♥ clarice] danced at 6:27 PM

Thursday, May 12, 2011

A common and overly heard question, what is love? Can it really be defined, or is it just us humans? Maybe love isn’t as complicated as what we thought it out to be.

One thing for sure, love, an emotion, is supposed to feel good.

♥ Love is accepting.
To love someone for who they are, and having no particular desire to change them. This is unconditional love. If love is conditional, it will die away the moment he/she fails to meet the conditions.

“Consequently, love is rarely a constant state but fluctuates based on our degree of acceptance.”

♥ Love is appreciating.
One step beyond acceptance, appreciation. What you like about your other half, their character, their companionship, the very first reason why you fell in love.

♥ Love is wanting another to feel good.
Isn’t that true? Sometimes, even at the expense of our own well-being.

And then we ask, does love hurt?

I shouldn’t think so.

“The pain associated with relationships has more to do with fear, than love.”

We hurt because of self doubt, broken trusts, anger, fear. If you go into a relationship without being confident about yourself, you’d likely become dependant on your partner to make you feel good about yourself. That dependency can stir up fear and unhappiness inside you when you feel that your relationship is threatened.

Yeah, these horrible feelings are often associated with love. But love itself? No it isn’t painful.

In fact, it’s an awesome, amazing, incredible feeling.

 

Just read something meaningful and had to pen my thoughts out.

[♥ clarice] danced at 11:59 PM