That strong girl whom everyone knew would make it through the worst, she might be crying alone every night.
That fearless girl who dares to do anything, she was so afraid to fall in love.
That independent girl who didn’t need a man, sometimes all she wished for was to seek comfort in somebody’s arms.
That girl who never backed down, she’s been played, hurt and betrayed but she never gives up. She’s stronger now.
Girls, we all deserve better?
If they want us, they’re going to have to fight for us, because if they don’t, we’re gna find someone so much better than them. Someone that actually deserves us, someone that makes us look at them and wonder why didn’t they appear in our lives earlier.
Guys sometimes just have this amazing ability to make us girls feel like crap. We over think everything he does, while he plays it off like no big deal. We’re clueless to his act, and it ends up hurting us because we care too much. And when we start to cause too much drama? They make it seem like it’s our fault. They break our hearts, tear our worlds apart, but we never learn our lessons.
Well, it’s not that we don’t learn our lessons. It’s because we never give up hope. We’re always hoping. Hoping that he’ll change, hoping that he’s different, hoping for a miracle, hoping for love. Everyone of us has got to the point of trying to convince ourselves that we don’t give a fuck, but deep down inside we know we’re still secretly hoping.
Hoping for something that will make us believe again, something that makes us want to put our hearts out there, something that makes us learn how to say “I love you” all over again.
And so they say,
“You should tell them the truth. Tell them that if they hold on too tightly, love might cut them. Tell them to hold on tightly anyway. Tell them everything is worth it and that the richness of life is only ever enhanced by its inevitable, brief flashes of sadness and loss.”
Is everything worth it?