Some people say, it’s hard to be with someone who’s so different from you. I beg to differ. It’s not the differences that make it hard, have you tried being with someone who’s so similar to you? I have, and I can tell you it’s not easy either. Given a choice, I’d still choose to be with someone different from me. In that way, he’ll be able to show me a brand new world, one that I’ve never seen before. It opens up new perspectives and new opportunities that we would never have thought about in the past.
Two should have different qualities and weaknesses in order to complement each other and help each other grow. I was once with a guy who had the same weaknesses as me, I totally understood him, but I never knew how to help because that was my weakness too. It was a total disaster.
Well, just saying.
It’s easy to fall in love, but it’s hard to stay in love. If you found something ever so precious, shouldn’t you guard, protect and cherish it with your whole life? Nowadays people just give up too easily. Perhaps it’s because it’s so easy to fall in love and you can just find someone else if this doesn’t work out. People try too hard, then they get tired of it. But after so many times, I’ve come to realize no matter how many times you’re gna fall in love, you still have to put in all that effort and hard work to keep a relationship going. And there’s no guarantee you’d find someone better. We should never be too greedy when it comes to love, because you might just end up losing more than what you’ve gained.
I know I found my precious gem, a love that belongs to me and only me. I don’t want to realize this too late. So I’m gna have to keep on fighting.
I will always be here.