We are all afraid of change, because we’re afraid of turning into somebody we’re not. But when someone called me stubborn today, I realize perhaps we don’t actually change into another person. Because we can’t.

I used to be very stubborn, and that trait of mine really did cost me a lot. Now that I thought I have changed, I have, and I haven’t. How so? It dawned upon me that I was still as stubborn as ever, but my mindset changed. I’m stubborn for different things now. I’m cautious not to let this trait of mine cause me anymore regrets, cautious not to make the same mistakes again.

But me, I’m still stubborn. Because I’m still stuck here missing you, when it’s time to go.